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Lauren from Columbus, OH asks:
You will tell by the time you finish reading this that I am deeply troubled with
my relationship. My man is in a band and I am a nanny . . . talk about different
lifestyles. For a long time now, we have been living together and I pay for
about 75% of the financial responsibilities, sometimes leaving no spend $ for
myself. I have been pleading with him to do more romantic things like dinner,
vacation, or a simple gesture other than just being home early enough to
physically lay beside me. He claims that these things aren’t possible without
money and he gets defensive. He says that once he’s successful things will
change. Am I asking too much? How long do I wait for things to change?
REALationship.com expert team
Lauren, waiting for things to change or pleading for them to change will not
make them, or him, change. Change in a relationship and in partner is possible,
but you have to know what to do, and that has nothing to do with pleading or
waiting. On the other hand, it also has nothing to do with manipulation. Start
by deciding what you want and making sure that you have it as much as possible
by providing it for yourself.
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