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I have heard that the honeymoon stage of dating is about 90 days. Is this true? am I only going to feel all excited for a while? That would be depressing if no matter the person i was dating, that it would still end up eventually being boring? Any thoughts 
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Dont ever let what other people tell you what happened to them will happen to you. I can gladly say that i am so thankful for sticking in my relationship for years. It paid off and i am married now 4 years. It is what you make of it.
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I believe with all my heart that the feeling lasts!! On December 10th my boyfriend and I have been dating for two years and I am still as excited as I was when we first met. Each kiss still makes me weak in the knees.
Cecelia
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90 days? That is nonsense! It lasts for however long it lasts. Each couple is different. The initial infatuation (more physical - less mental) eventually evolves into a more serious love relationship (more mental - less physical). There is no deadline for when it occurs. My grandparents infatuation (complete with sweaty palms and racing heart) lasted over 65 years! I know, because grandma used to say "That man can still make my heart do flip flops!" She was 72 when she said that and blushed like a teenager! The secret is not to let the frustrations of everyday responsibilities (bills, work, kids) overshadow the feelings you have.
As for my mom: She used to say she knew the honeymoon was over when my dad started to leave the toilet seat up!
As for me: I fall in love with my husband everytime he does something so sweetly unexpected. We have been together for 2 years and it is still a honeymoon!
happy thoughts.......
peggy m
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Good Afternoon Jess;
Being on cloud nine is a beautiful feeling that will always stay with you and your mate,as long as the love is their so will the beautiful feeling. Never listen to what other people say, its a different circumstance.Just because someone lost the feeling doesn't mean you will.Feel with your heart and believe your heart and it sure will lead you in the right direction..Good Luck and many wishes.
Love is friendship set on fire
Rocky
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It is up to you and your mate to keep the fire from burning... Married or not, you should never get used to a routine. Do things upruptly, send eachother love notes, wait for your mate wearing lingerie or cook in your birthday suit etc.... There are many ways to keep your relationship fun and inspiring...
Having a relationship is like a job you have to work at it... If it gets boring it's because neither one of you are putting any effort into your relationship.....
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Hi
Honeymoon stage only fades if your love fades or you allow it to fade.Their are many manyy people out their that have been together for a very long time and they love eachother more each day.They hold on too the love they both have.Love grows.... Always be true and never lose communication and you will never get bored. Good Luck
Rocky
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