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Rank: Newbie
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Joined: 12/8/2007
Posts: 2
Location: LA
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I have had 2 good friends who completely spend all of their time with their GF, we used to chill and have a fun night out every once in a while, I also hae a GF and it is fine, but it is totally ridiculous when guys give up their life for a girl
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Rank: Advanced Member
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Joined: 12/11/2007
Posts: 107
Location: Northwoods of Wisconsin - BEAUTIFUL country
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You see it as giving up their life... I see it as adding to it. Your boys are "courting" and for some guys it is pretty time consuming. Once they get the committment, they will have more time for you. Why don't you invite your buddies WITH their girlfriends for a night out with you and your girlfriend? Maybe suggest a GIRLS night out so you boys can have a night out, too?
happy thoughts.......
peggy m
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Rank: Advanced Member
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Joined: 12/17/2007
Posts: 245
Location: Florida
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It sounds like your a bit jealous or angry.You should be happy for your friends.Im sure there happy for you. If you miss going out with your friends, then why not communicate with them and let them know how you feel, so they can explain things.Not all guys are like that, but some want the relationship to work , so they dedicate themselves to the one they care about.You all have gf's well then make a point on you all going out together.
Rocky
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Rank: Advanced Member
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Joined: 1/10/2008
Posts: 18
Location: Pickering
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Your friends aren't loosing their life, they are moving forward in their lives. Good friends will always be good friends. Your time together may not be as often but just as rewarding. Make plans for meeting with the gf and bf to have some fun together. Maybe you just haven't moved on as quickly as they have but one day you will.
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Rank: Member
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Joined: 12/10/2007
Posts: 12
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don't worry, the gfs need their alone times with their girls too so after time and the novelty of a new relationship wears off, things will most likely balance out better.
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Rank: Newbie
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Joined: 5/4/2009
Posts: 2
Location: Windsor
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I have a few girlf friends who have found "that guy" and totally fallen of the face of the earth...
I hate it to! I think a good relationship needs balance with friends and hobbies... I think people are too needy and desperate these days and don't want to spend their youth having fun but instead makeing sure they are gona get married and have babies drive me crazy!
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