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Rank: Newbie
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Joined: 11/25/2007
Posts: 1
Location: OK
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i was with this guy for a year and 8 days nd we broke up nd since then mine and his life has turned to crap. we both have had firends and family die, rumors, and we both want each other back but i cheated but i didnt remember it... he says he needs time and i have waited for 2 months.. wat do i do now. should i try to get over him or should i wait longer. he still wants to have sex and stuff, with me but it hurts to feel this way.
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Rank: Advanced Member
Groups: Member
Joined: 12/11/2007
Posts: 107
Location: Northwoods of Wisconsin - BEAUTIFUL country
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If the sex only thing does not make you feel good about yourself, why stay with it? Breaking it off completely wouldn't feel good either, so you won't be losing much.
My grandparents used to have alot of sayings like "Can't sit on the fences all day. You won't get anything done." If you want more of a relationship, let him know and maybe consider NOT seeing him anymore until he decides. That does not mean for you to put your life on hold and it doesn't mean for you to jump in the sack with another guy right away either. 90% of a relationship has nothing to do with sex. Why settle for only 10%?
happy thoughts.......
peggy m
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Rank: Advanced Member
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Joined: 12/17/2007
Posts: 245
Location: Florida
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Hi
Were you broken up when you say you cheated on him? Because if so then its not cheating. But if you cheating while iyou were in a relationship with him.You say its been 2 months and if you should wait, that would be totally up too you, how does your heart feel. But you have to also know when someone gets cheated on they lose the trust in that person. He may not beable to trust you, what i mean is he may come back but if anything is out of the orinary, it will be in the back of his head wondering if you cheated again on him..You have to decide whether to wait or move on. You can only answer that. Put everything into consideration and then decide.
Rocky
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