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Any help people??? This guys seems to be nice and respectful, but there doesnt seem to be alot of deepness to the relationship. Are there any "for sure" things you can see or watch for to know if things are for real.
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wish i new my self... half the time its seems beyond perfict and the other half its kinda like... im I or is She the right person for me or her? love is crazy and i guess you can't ever really truely know....
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there's no "for sure" signs to see and tell if it's "real" or not. you can only find out by communication and knowing beforehand what you are looking for in a realationship and whether this person meets these criterias of YOURS or not. just don't trust too easily.
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But isnt the trust a crucial part of developing that love?
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hey~~ of course, trust is critical to any good, stable relationship. i believe that trust is a firm foundation for any healthy relationship. i was just trying to say that in this situation, the only most-clear cut way of knowing whether this guy is being sincere in this relationship is by talking about what each side is expecting and looking for. the two people in this relationship will not be able to unbiasly tell what is going on by judging the other person's actions...therefore, there's no surefire way to "tell" solely based on what he seems to be...this would all then be based on implications.
in my stating not to trust too easily.. it's in reference to the conversation and talking about what each other will say, if that makes any sense. to trust blindly everything that's exchanged can't always have a good outcome so i just wanted to say to take precaution in that. especially for early stages of a dating relationship, things can be more sugar-coated than they should be. just a word of caution.
but yes, trust is very important. not sure what kind of situation you're in but relationships are taking risks on what you trust and believe to be true. and then you see how things go on from there. =]
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Hi
Sometimes females find themselves in a situation where they believe that a guy is interested, but they aren’t sure. They compare the way he acts to how they would act if they were interested and make judgments based on those comparisons.Guys display their attraction differently than women do. Experts predict that only 7% of attraction is shown through verbal communication, 38% is displayed through tone and a whopping 55% is shown through body language. This means that women who recognize the meaning behind male body language have a big advantage in the dating world!
All you can do is just take the relationship one step ahead and see where it leads you. Just trust akeep a open mind and take it from there. He might be one who is slow in expressing how he really feels.Noone wants to be hurt.
Rocky
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