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Rank: Newbie
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Joined: 1/24/2008
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I have been engaged for about 3 months now and we just moved in togetherand ever sense then we have been arguing. I am 25 and she is 20 andstill attending school. She still wants to hang out with the guys and wants to party. Am i wrong for expecting her to change now that we are engaged. Now back to the guy thing. She has been hanging around this guy alot at school. I know she wont cheat on me but she is with him during all of her free time. Should i expect her to stop hanging out with him so much. See i am one of the very few nice guys out there. I give her everything and do everything for her. part of me does not think she appreciates me and that is why i usually start arguing with her but i am affraid to hurt her feelings and tell her how i feel she is treating me. I dont know what to do. I am so in love with this woman but i dont know how to get her to realize what she has. everyone tells me that i should get my ring back from her but i dont want that. Can anyone answer my questions and give me so advice.
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Rank: Advanced Member
Groups: Member
Joined: 1/10/2008
Posts: 18
Location: Pickering
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Sorry to say but your girlfriend sounds very imature and definetly not ready for marriage. She wants the security you offer but doesn't want to take any responsibility for her actions. I know it is very hard on you but I think you should have her move out and get the ring back. She is quite young and still in school, living that life style. If I were you I would wait until she completed school and has her own career befor a commitment of marriage is made. It will be hard to do but easier now than getting a divorce later. There are women who would respect your feelings and your stability. Good Luck!
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Rank: Advanced Member
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Joined: 2/8/2008
Posts: 8
Location: Detroit
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I get two things here!
you want to control her
she is still too young to even know what she wants!
If you truely love her why does a marriage have to be the proof? it don't stay with her but i would call off the engagment or at least stay engaged for a long long time! like after she finishes school.
Short story i was friends with this guy and his girlfriend and I became really really good friends (best friend now) she is a little younger i'm more the age of her boyfriend.
She was in school and she wanted to get married so bad yeah she is that type!
well with me being friends with her boyfriend i got the scoop on why he never asked her! (she sounded like your girl) still in school still wanting to party ect.... that alone was keeping him from asking her!
well about a year later I met this guy and his friends use to come over and party at my place. my boyfriend and his best friend where over and my friend the girl met up with my boyfriends best friend she ended up braking up with him because she met this dude at my house! not even in school but she was still taking classes!
her now ex talked to me and said that is why he never asked her!
with me knowing her she was with this guy for 4 years he bought a house instead of a ring so she left him!
now older and wiser she is married with a guy she loves!
Here is my deal I met a guy 2 years ago whom i love to peices he is a year younger then me not what i was use to! but we love each other and the wedding that we both want well it can wait I already know i want to spend mylife with him there for i don't need a peice of paper to say yeah were together!
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