I'm currently in a relationship with my boyfriend of almost 2 years now but it has been a long distance relationship for most of it. I cheated him a few months ago, i kissed another guy (my cousin's friend). I told my boyfriend about it, he was not happy at all but he forgave me in the end. We are still together yet on the other hand i still talk to the other guy and now i have feelings for him too, but apparantly he doesn't have the best reputation ...i still like my boyfriend very much though. i know my bf is very faithfull and loving and the other guy is fun and loving, flirtatious but i haven't heard good things about him on a commitment level. I'm confused.I don't know what to do... help. thanks in advance

hi
One of the mistakes that a distance relationship couple often make is to settle for a temporary replacement when their partner is not physical around. By letting a third party into your life, you will not only put your distance relationship to risk but you will also break the mutual trust and agreement that you make. Although it may not be done intentionally but this type of mistake will be very costly to your long distance relationship.
So you really need to pick who you wanna be with because by talking to him and having feelings for him you only going to get yourself into trouble, so since you only like your bf then you should think about moving on..Im not sure if this new guy would be good for you but only time will tell.Watch out he doesnt hurt your heart, since he isnt like your bf. But also the absence of your partner does not give you the license to dictate and manipulate the relationship. You must remember that, your partner has their own right to participate in any decision making toward the well being of your relationship regardless where there are. A long distance relationship is also as important as a normal relationship and your partner has their own right to be treated fairly.
So you are the only one that can decide what you want..Good Luck

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Rocky