Rank: Newbie Groups: Member
Joined: 12/17/2007 Posts: 2
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I just started seeing this guy we are both going thru a divorce. It started off really well, now he asked for time and has not been calling me like he did all the time befor. I am sure he is not over is ex but he tells me he really likes me and he wants a little time. Should I just move on?
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 Rank: Advanced Member Groups: Member
Joined: 12/12/2007 Posts: 117 Location: South-East Oklahoma
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Yes, divorcors are not people that you can trust, emotionally, their in a crsis of purpose, and no matter what kind of goddess you are, he well be feeling more intensily for her then he will for you, so its really going to simply amount to a rebound ONLY more intense because this isn't highschool anymore. You'll hear from him in time I'm more then sure, and he'll lay down what he can to have you around, your helping him in a sense. BUT trust, its going to take a mircle for it to be fair for you because of the dynamics with his ex-wife. So I sujest moving on, if he tries to hold on, make him work HARD for it, he needs to prove to you that you not just a distraction from the pain of the relainoship he is in now. Because divorces don't end relationships with memories, which is what he needs to come to terms with. SO A WHOLE LOT OF DRAMA for you, so proceed at your own caution, I do sujest again, moving on...
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 Rank: Advanced Member Groups: Member
Joined: 12/17/2007 Posts: 245 Location: Florida
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Hi If you care about him , give him a little time.He needs to find himself..Its not easy getting divorced and then getting into another relationship. Stay in contact with him and go from there.Im sure you will feel it if its time to move on.
Rocky
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Rank: Advanced Member Groups: Member
Joined: 1/10/2008 Posts: 18 Location: Pickering
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I think you should move on! He was hot and heavy when he first met you and then needed time? That would wave a red flag in my face. He realized you weren't the person he wanted to be with for some unknown reason to you. He isn't calling you either, hmm. It sounds like it isn't his and your time. Enjoy other peoples company and see what happens. Chin up and keep on going forward!
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