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Joined: 11/14/2007
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Location: boston
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my boy told me he saw my girlfriend out at a party last wekend and she was making out with some random dude. should i ask her if this is true or wait to see if she says anything first?
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Rank: Administration
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Joined: 11/11/2007
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Location: texas
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rumors screw up everything...dont assume just confront
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Joined: 12/11/2007
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Location: Northwoods of Wisconsin - BEAUTIFUL country
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This brings back so many memories of high school!
A friend of mine told me she saw my boyfriend making out with another firend of mine. When I told her "You better be darn sure of what you saw cause the stuff is hitting the fan!" and I told her she was going with me to confront them both.... she recanted! "Well maybe it could have been someone else", she didn't get a really good look but just thought it looked alot like him. Turns out... it wasn't him! I found out later that this friend of mine instigated trouble between people alot with false tales.
A few months later, he DID cheat and I found out from him because he didn't want me to find out at school because it was at a party and alot of people saw them together.
You have alot of options here in getting down to the bottom of it.
happy thoughts.......
peggy m
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Joined: 12/17/2007
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Location: Florida
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Of course it would be better if you wait and see if she says anything too you..You should ask her if their is anything she wants too tell you..If she says she doesnt know what you are talking about then confront her..Are you sure the source is a reliable source? You have to make sure its true what your boy said.Good Luck
Rocky
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Joined: 12/13/2007
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Location: Hyde Park, MA
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I believe that you should just come out and ask her...
One advice that I am going to give you is, DO NOT always go by what people tell you. If you don't have the proof or haven't seen anything with your own eyes, then leave it alone....
Out of experience I have learned that listening to people just ruins your relationship.. There are people out there that are jealous of you and are out to hurt and make you miserable no matter what... I'm not going to say that they are not telling the truth, but you need to find out the facts first before jumping into conclusions.... ALWAYS GO DIRECTLY TO THE SOURCE...
Good Luck!
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