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Joined: 12/16/2007
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Location: Orlando, FL
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I have been going out with my girlfriend for a little less than three months and a little less than a month in she started getting physical with me. I'm very insecure with my body and have never done anything sexual before. I am worried that we may be moving too fast and I don't know if we should slow down or not, though we have both acknowledged that we will not have sex for a while.
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Rank: Advanced Member
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Joined: 12/17/2007
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Location: Florida
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If you feel she is moving to fast tell her that. You can't be pressured in to sex, its not a good thing to do..Both have to want it.And when it comes to your insecure of your body, you need to cope with that and you have to remember, you both have been dating so she probably doesnt see anything wrong with you..Try to get over it.Its hard but you can do it and she will help you overcome that.Good Luck
Rocky
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Rank: Advanced Member
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Joined: 12/12/2007
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Location: South-East Oklahoma
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Think of it as a choice. Ether your going to fear the sex, are your going to be excited about the sex, you have no other choices. AND like ROCKS saying, Until THEN, that your both excited and respecting the action, that you THEN should have it. Really the longer the better, gets in the way of the true deepth of the relationship, the relating. Its best to wait it out as long as possible, trust the pleasure is like wine, gets much, much better with age.....
espacially within the context of a relaitonship with a long history. Also take rockys advice to heart, she's already descided that she likes that body, YOUR DATING! So stop insulting her choice in man and think your sexy for once, she does.....
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