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Location: Texas
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Flirting is just something about most guys that makes them think that is the way you are supposed to treat a girl, it seems like they dont even know when they are doing it. My bf tries to tell me he is just being nice, but you can do that without being so touchy. what is the best way to deal with this? 
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Joined: 11/14/2007
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Location: cleveland
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well i love to flirt to with girls. any girls. it doesnt matter to me what they look like, how old they are. i just like flirt wiht them. most guys are like me (I think). just because i flirt doesnt mean that i actually have feelings for a girl. i wouldnt worry about it. it just part of being a guy. laterz.
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Joined: 12/12/2007
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Location: South-East Oklahoma
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Not really its part of maturing into a man, she knows it because females mature emtionally faster due to our society the males. Its in the culture, that aside, your in a somewhat dangerous situation. That fact is, he flirts with ladies, because he knows NO OTHER way to do it and feel good about himself. So he is doing what I call "pride-socializing" which is the only REAL reason he is doing it, is becuase it makes HIM feel bettter. You know like me, there is other ways, so him doing this means he still has alot to learn about the heart. And your trust your heart to his, so not a good situation. But if you can get him as someone else said on her, to see from your perception and that STILL doesn't fix him, your dealing with a boy with alot to learn, proceed at your own caution....
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Joined: 12/11/2007
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Location: Northwoods of Wisconsin - BEAUTIFUL country
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What jumped out at me is when you wrote that he is "touchy". If he is that way with other females...
Unnacceptable in my book! I have a pretty laid back personality when it comes to my husband flirting with the girls at work, but, I have to say, "touchy" crosses my zero tolerance line! If I caught him doing that I can guarantee his butt will be out in the cold and all his personal possessions in the snow right behind him! I don't mince words about it to him. He knows what I will accept and what I won't. "Touchy" is a no-no!
happy thoughts.......
peggy m
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Joined: 12/17/2007
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Location: Florida
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hi
not all guys treat their gf's like that. I certainly don't. I always turn the shoes and ask if you want that done too you. It's not right that he is flirting,especially around you. You can confront him but of course he is going to deny it and tell you it's your imagination. You can ask and believe me, you both probably will get into a fight over it, but he has too know how you feel.You can't be in a relationship where one flirts, it will cause you to have a low self esteem. So only you can make that decision on whether you want to stay with him or move on with your life before its too late and you get not only hurt but you will feel less confident in yourself.Good Luck..Wish you the best.
Rocky
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