my fiance and i have been together for 2years, and threw out the relationship she has frightened by certain things, well last night she revealed to me that when she was 14 she ran away from home and was living with her boyfrined at the the time, and his dad was raping and molesting her. it affects our relationship because both emotionaly and sexually. the sexual stuff i have no problem with, i understand her completely, but emotionally, its hard. she will have night terrors about the horrible stuff and i will wake her up from them and she will just cry in my arms, that tears me up. at the time i didnt know anything about this.. what can i do to make her feel safe, and secure. it just kills me that this stuff still haunts her... i love her so much, i dont like seeing her hurt...