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I mean sometimes i feel really in love but other times i am very frustrated with him. I know love is so much more than a feeling, but can't you seee signs of it early on? how can i know if i love him?
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there really isnt a measuring stick on this. the best way for me to describe this is that you "just know".
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it's when he can be embarrassing in front of you and your friends and yet your feelings for him don't waver in the slightest.. you still think he's the best!
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Love is simply that, feeling, thats not what your reaching for. Your hoping for the whole cascade of feeligns we call "Falling in love" this has alot more to do with the fact that everything you feel is associated ALOT with him, causing you to be constantly thinking, feeling, and hoping for him. So alot of the times things block this from happening, could just not be the right time, or the right person, because the "falling in love" is the easy part, its knowing how to love that gets complicated....
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I strongly suggest you get down to the bottom of why you are getting frustrated with him. If you can't accept those things now, what do you think is going to happen later on? Any ideas of wanting to change him are futile. Only he can change himself and that's hard to do if he doesn't see the need to.
Love is a mind set. It is the thoughts and feelings that create a desire to be with someone. If you THINK you are in love, you are. There is no law stating when to express it. I used the rule: If I was pretty sure this is the guy I wanted to spend the rest of my days with, I told him.
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Well Lisa, there is no best or wrong time to say I love you. There is always some frustration in a relationship, it gets better as the relationship grows. You can feel love in your heart and mind and soul. its a beautiful feeling, its like you always want to be near him and you have a feeling in your stomach if he hasnt called etc. You will know ..Just follow your heart it will always lead the way.
Rocky
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Someone once told me, relationships are all different. Sometimes, love it's there at the start, and you know beyond a doubt. Other times it develops and comes later, in stages. I believe that it's different with everyone... I think it's ultimately you that can answer whether or not you love him. But listen to the advice given here, you have a few people wise beyond their years... best of luck.
§ without love, life is doris day at the apollo §
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Hi again
In real life, when you find yourself falling in love, questions and doubts are part for the course. You are beginning an identity crisis — contemplating two becoming one — and nobody warns you how scary it can be. If you're wondering if you're in love, this is often because you might base a decision on your answer. Be careful! Decisions should not be based just on the feeling of 'love'. You should also look at respect, commitment and trust.
Ask yourself what it means to you if you believe you're in love. Don't put pressure on yourself to define what you're feeling as love. And don't let anyone else pressure you either.
If you're not sure of the answer right now. Give it some time and ask yourelf a few months or a year down the road if your in love or not. You might be surprised to see how your feelings change.
Good Luck
Rocky
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lisa5 wrote:I mean sometimes i feel really in love but other times i am very frustrated with him. I know love is so much more than a feeling, but can't you seee signs of it early on? how can i know if i love him? The best way to know if you love someone is when you don't have to ask that question "Am I in love" when your truely in love you don't ask that question!
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