hi,
I'm worried about my long distance relationship.
I met my Polish boyfriend this past summer at a music camp. For some very weird reason, we didn't get together until the day before the end of camp. I'm guessing becuase I really didn't believe in long distance relationship.
I am 17 and he's almost 19 but we both don't have the financial ability to fly across half of the Earth to see each other. Our promise is that I'll go to Poland next summer to meet his parents since he met mine already. But my mother said she won't let me go. (I didn't tell him about it)
I'm worried about wheather we can keep the relationship for a year. We are now together(or at least mentally) for three months. We can only chat once a week and e-mail each other once a day but it's difficult.
I'm constantly worried that he will give up the relationship even though he was the one who said "I won't see anyone for a year. Will you?".
What worries me the most is his appearence. He is a very attractive guy that all the girls would fall for (which I don't understand why he likes me) and I'm afraid that he would leave me.
This is my first serious relationship and I know I won't be able to stand the heart break.

Do you think it's a good idea the way it is? Is there any way I can improve it?
I can't end it becuase we really love each other

It is difficult when you really care and love someone, but one thing that you need in a relationship is trust. If you don't have that, you don't have anything... Both of you are still young and experiencing life... Don't spend it by stressing out if he will find someone else or if things will work out between the two of you... Enjoy every moment that you have together and take things as they come.... Sometimes being apart makes a relationship that much stronger.. The important thing is to be honest with one another...

If it's meant to be, everything will be fine. If it doesn't you have to say to yourself that you are still young and that there is someone special out there for you....

Part of growing up is going through life's experiences, that includes having broken hearts... But what you go through in life is all a lesson learned, and it all makes you to be a wiser, stronger individual...

Good Luck and God bless!

When it comes too long distance relationships anything can happen. All you can do is love him and believe in his love for you. You can't start thinking the way you think.It will only make more pain.I know it is hard on the both of you, but just remember love goes stronger when your hearts are away.


Even a very small degree of hope is enough to cause the birth of love.

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Rocky