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Joined: 12/26/2007
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how do deal with my boyfriend who does trust me and he wants too, much of my attention.. i have two kids and i work all the time and we do live together. i feel like he doesnt desplicine my kids and i am always the bad guy.. Do I leave him for the kids sake? any advice?
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Rank: Advanced Member
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Joined: 12/17/2007
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Location: Florida
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Don't run away if you really care for this guy, if this guy is good too your kids but is afraid to discpline, then you need to talk with him..Let him know how you feel.As long as you care about him and hes not bad with your kids i would sit him down and explain things.Sometimes they feel they shouldnt discpline other children.I know you want the best for your kids and if he is bad in anyway, yes leave.When the guy excepts you he needs to except the children.
Rocky
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Rank: Advanced Member
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Joined: 1/10/2008
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Location: Pickering
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Maybe your boyfriend feels like you don't want him to dicipline your children. He may be afraid you will criticize his discipline tecniques. Talk to him about what he is thinking and think about what kind of rules and discipline you will both use. You have to be on the same page or it won't work out. This is a hard time in your life but also a rewarding time. You will look back one day and say "How did I do it all?" If your boyfriend treats your children fairly and cares about them then I would give him a chance to help you out. Good Luck and happy days!
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