I was in a relationship for well it would of been 5 years in Feb. We never faught for the first 3 1/2. he worked out of town all week but would call everyday. We were very very happy. I have 2 daughters bothe teenagers and he has 3 sons also teenages. We purchased a house together 2 years ago. My yougest daughter 17 became pregnant last dec 06. He was not happy about it and neither was I . He said he would try to accept it but that it would change our relationship because we would not have time together like we used to . Baby came and he was right, we faught more and it was not a happy home. Well he left me on Dec. 16 07. He said he had to because he was so cramped . He got an appartment and he hates it. He tells me he still cares and that he misses me. He is always saying how he misses the house and things like that. He is the one calling me. I wont call him I'm trying to give him his space. I love him very much and did not want my relationship to end. I asked ! him at the beginning if we could try to work on us to get back what we had and he says no. But why does he still keep coming around and why is he saying that he misses me. I asked him today if he still misses me and he said yes but he doesn't think about it as much as he use to. Is there any hope of us trying to work this out and please give me some advice on how to approach him. I want a chanc to make this work but don't know what to do next. He is always asking how I'm doing he still cares I know he does. Help

Hello
Im sorry this is going wrong for you.Two people who care about eachother deserves to be together. But you have to look at why he left, which is clear, once the baby came there was no time for him. You love your daughter and your grandchild, so you really need to concentrate on how you can spend more time with him. He has to accept the arrangements or he isnt going to go back. Since he has his own apartment now, maybe you can go out places with him and talk with him eachtime and make him understand that you love him and you want it too work..Ask him what he wants. Talk back and forth and fine where the problem is. Both need to be honest with eachother. Is their a dad in your daughters babies life? If so is he a good man ? And if he is maybe they can get apartment together if not there really isnt much to be said on that subject, she is your daughter. try going back to dating and never lose contact or you both will lose eachother. Communication is the most important.Without you lose trust so keep communicating with him. Good Luck

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Rocky