I have been dating this guy for almost 5 months. And it been going very well until recently, we have been getting into a few fights here and there, but they arent big. But recently there have been more. I want to wait on bieng more physical, but there are days where i am just in the mood. I am very confused as to what I want and he knows that he wants to have sex eventually but I am so scared. and he very well aware that I want to wait and I am scared adn nervous to do so. what do I do?

Keep talking about it, and be true to yourself, until your ready to take it to that level don't! Besides, your both most likly going to make some GRAVE mistakes. For one, the big difference between just having sex and actually making love is communication. IF YOU GO AHEAD BEFORE YOUR HONESTLY READY YOU WELL MESS UP THE COMMUNICATION!!! And that well make for a bad experience. Taking it slow is the key, talking about it is the key, ALL THE WAY, to when you guys are naked. If you don't, you guys well just clam up, bump uglies, and moan. When if you talk thru it, it be an experience neither one could forget, trust I've done it both ways, just extending the experience..... besides, for a firster you NEED to communicate your pleasure and your pain. And how do you expect to do that honestly, if you can't be honest about not wanting it? Stay true hunnie. As far for the "mood" really, at an young age we need to learn how to satisfy ourselves if not, well be TOTALLY dependent on another person, something I've seen to be pretty bad idea.