This happened about 5 years ago. I was a senior in high school and met this guy that played on the football team. He was really popular and spoke to me one day in class and we were attracted to each other from the start. After dating for about a month he started to put alot of pressure on me to have sex with him. he would say things like he loved me and wanted to spend the rest of his life with me to try and persuade me to give in. I finally gave in and after having sex for a few weeks he broke up with me. Five years later I am still having feeling the effects of that mistake. I feel really guilty and that I let someone use me. What can i do to help get over these feelings?

You have to move on, you made a mistake, he lead you on, he messed with your heart.You felt it was right. He was a macho guy playing football. He is the one who was wrong, you were only following your heart. All you can do is stop living in the past, it happened its over and you learned something out of it. You cant turn back time, you can only move forward.You were young. Just live life to the fulliest. Forget the past, live for the present to find your future.

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Rocky