love was a long process for me in my relationship. it definately wasnt love at first site for me. in order for me to develope love for my boyfriend i first had to able to trust him. i think this is a major step in loving someone. if you cannot trust them then i do not believ you can fully love them. i think it took me a good 2 years to be able to be sure that i was in love. once i was in love with my BF we told each other and our relationship reahed another level. my advice would to be patient and not rush into telling someone that you love them

that's awesome! i'm always worrying that this "love" feeling has come way too fast in my relationship. my bf said it first and so i felt compelled to have to reply with the same thing, although i wasn't sure at all at the time. i would rather it have happened after a longer duration of time so that it would be that much more powerful .