REALationship.com staff writer
Women are complicated, aren’t
they? Have you seen the movie “What Women Want?”, Wouldn’t it be nice if it
were so easy to know someone’s thoughts. With women everything’s confusion –
from the first call, first date, onwards. Men are lucky though, because
women want to give you the right signal. But do your part, don’t
misinterpret. Here’s what to look out for when a girl just is not into her
SIGNAL 1: When She acts awkward, and fake.
If you are too worried thinking there is something about you that
could turn her off, then this is the message you are sending, and she is
getting it. If you are acting too nervous, she’ll feel nervous. It is just
contagious. Feel good about yourself to show you are open for a good
relationship with her. If you show an insecurity about yourself, expect her
to act awkward and worse – fake (or just being polite).
SIGNAL 2: When she crosses her arms, leans
away from you, and avoids eye contact.
If she does these, you must be giving her a message that you are ‘sexually
preoccupied.’ Watch your stares man. Do not make your self a less than
SIGNAL 3: When she smiles but doesn’t laugh at
your jokes. Take it like a man. She is
just not interested. She might only be thinking that you simply are not at
the same trail of thinking, that you do not have chemistry.
SIGNAL 4: When she talks less and agrees with
everything you say. Careful –
conversation is getting boring. Try to ask her a few questions about her.
SIGNAL 5: When she asks for
number. Painful, but this is
a let’s-take-it-slow, or at the worst – an indirect
no – subtle rejection. You might find it worthy to push further for a
possibly great relationship in the future, but know it when you should give
up. Learn to move on.
SIGNAL 6: When she tells you that you would be
perfect for her sister, or she suddenly brings up the fact that she’s still
talking to her ex-boyfriend. Guys,
isn’t this clear enough?
So, here is the overall tip:
Don’t you try to look for signs that she is
into you. Look for the signs that show she is not. Try looking for the
opposite. So you can learn when to
take NO for an answer. You’re lucky if you don’t see any of the above
signals on your date. If you do, learn to take a hint. Women can be very
difficult to read. Good luck!
-By REALationship.com staff
writer: Ae Dechavez
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